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New · Nonfiction, Biography

A Truce That Is Not Peace

by Miriam Toews
2025 · 178 pages · Nonfiction
Critics' pick
≈ 4 hours to read · about 8 days at 30 minutes a day

What it's about

'Why do you write?' an organizer of a literary event in Mexico City asks Miriam Toews. Each of her attempted answers uncovers new layers of grief, guilt and futility connected to her sister's suicide, and to a lifelong internal conversation, in a short memoir about whether to live life as a comedy or a tragedy.

Why it's worth reading

It was a National Book Critics Circle Award finalist. Toews writes about grief with rare humor and honesty.

You'll love it if you liked

Good to know

It's short and fragmentary. It deals with suicide.

By the numbers

69.6Must-Read Score
  • Readers64 out of 100 · counts 42%
  • Critics21 out of 100 · counts 34% (its stronger lane)
  • Bestseller0 out of 100 · counts 14%
  • Buzz72 out of 100 · counts 10%

Critics and Bestseller are two ways to earn a place: a book's stronger one counts more. Buzz rewards recent bestseller weeks and prizes, so older books start at zero. The parts combine into the Must-Read Score, shown on a scale where the best book we found scores 99 and the last book to make the ranking scores 50.

Where it ranks

Why it made the list

Shortlisted
NBCC Award (Memoir) finalist (2025)

Reads as

True story

How we rank

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Quick answers

Is A Truce That Is Not Peace worth reading?

Yes. It was a National Book Critics Circle Award finalist. It ranks #1,341 of the 2,816 books in our ranking, with a Must-Read Score of 69.6 (the best book we found scores 99).

What is A Truce That Is Not Peace about?

'Why do you write?' an organizer of a literary event in Mexico City asks Miriam Toews. Each of her attempted answers uncovers new layers of grief, guilt and futility connected to her sister's suicide, and to a lifelong internal conversation, in a short memoir about whether to live life as a comedy or a tragedy.

How long does it take to read A Truce That Is Not Peace?

About 4 hours (178 pages), or about 8 days at 30 minutes a day.

What should I read after A Truce That Is Not Peace?

If you liked it, try The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion, Notes on Grief by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie or A Grief Observed by CS Lewis.