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Modern · Nonfiction, Biography, LGBT

Not My Father's Son

by Alan Cumming
2014 · 305 pages · Nonfiction
Lifetime bestseller
≈ 8 hours to read · about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day

What it's about

When television producers asked actor Alan Cumming to appear on a celebrity genealogy show, he hoped to solve the mystery of his grandfather's disappearance. But another mystery came first: his father, the violent man who had held the family hostage to his cruelty, suddenly made a shocking claim about Cumming himself.

Why it's worth reading

It reached #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. It's a moving, honest and surprisingly funny memoir about family and abuse.

You'll love it if you liked

Good to know

It deals with childhood abuse. It reads like a mystery, with two stories alternating.

By the numbers

73.3Must-Read Score
  • Readers82 out of 100 · counts 42%
  • Critics0 out of 100 · counts 14%
  • Bestseller38 out of 100 · counts 34% (its stronger lane)
  • Buzz0 out of 100 · counts 10%

Critics and Bestseller are two ways to earn a place: a book's stronger one counts more. Buzz rewards recent bestseller weeks and prizes, so older books start at zero. The parts combine into the Must-Read Score, shown on a scale where the best book we found scores 99 and the last book to make the ranking scores 50.

Where it ranks

Why it made the list

Bestseller
#1 New York Times bestseller (1 week at #1)

Reads as

True story

How we rank

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Quick answers

Is Not My Father's Son worth reading?

Yes. It reached #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. It ranks #969 of the 2,816 books in our ranking, with a Must-Read Score of 73.3 (the best book we found scores 99).

What is Not My Father's Son about?

When television producers asked actor Alan Cumming to appear on a celebrity genealogy show, he hoped to solve the mystery of his grandfather's disappearance. But another mystery came first: his father, the violent man who had held the family hostage to his cruelty, suddenly made a shocking claim about Cumming himself.

How long does it take to read Not My Father's Son?

About 8 hours (305 pages), or about 2 weeks at 30 minutes a day.

What should I read after Not My Father's Son?

If you liked it, try I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy, The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls or Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover.